giving up

Things here won't ever get better. 

There is nothing I can do or communicate to make things better for me or anyone else.

I'm officially giving up.

I'm no longer planning a conversation to have with Andrea, Chris or anyone else.

I'm gonna keep my head down, find a new job and leave without a word being said. 

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